there are two ways that i have seen which really work in this world. cockey, and innocent. cockey deals with lifes hurdles by being the most forward and out there as can be, often just waltzing over them with a simple , "it's all covered". innocent doesn't even know the hurdles are there.
i'm a little bit cockey, she's a little bit innocent.
how the same genes can produce such a diffrence i'll never know