joy and dismay are tow sides of the same blog. joy from jen and the art of texting. i realised that about 80% of my phone bill is due to the SMS's i send out. i think i topped out at 100 in one day! dismay from hearing about stefan. would never have rememebred except for the hearlful rendition of 'Das Lied Der Deutschen'. it all snaps into place, the singing , the laughing, the happy times. how much can happen in a year neh?